Ladies, some of ya'll have never had a man to love & respect YOU, be both loyal & committed to YOU, and open & honest to YOU that when a man does these things you get scared and uncomfortable because it's too much like right, and find a reason to sabotage the possiblities. It's uncomfortable because you've become comfortable with drama, talking to your girlfriends about your relationship problems, and getting less than you're giving.
So, you often accept "what is" and "what you're used to" versus your truest desires -- love, joy, peace & happiness -- just to say, "At least I am not by myself!" All while being alone and lonely in a marriage/relationship. PHYSICALLY PRESENT, but MENTALLY ABSENT trying to piece together the leftover threads of a cloth that has worn out and unraveled. You begin to reflect the unspoken emotions of another failed relationship that you refuse to let go of because you think another failed relationship makes you a failure. So, you go back over & over again, and continue to do all the right things for the wrong man. Instead of running to the arms of LOVE, you remain in the comfort of dysfunction, only to end up more hurt, bitter, and privately filled with shame.
Imagine being in a relationship where the man emits and exudes LOVE, and there's no question of whether or not he LOVES you... RESPECTS you... HONORS you... YEARNS for you... LIKES you... APPRECIATES you... and YOU are FREE to be VULNERABLE enough to do the same...
There's nothing weak about LOVE! Love is the strongest energy that there is in the Universe, and anyone, but especially a man who knows how to LOVE is a reflection of GOD! God is LOVE and therefore, being loved is a manifestation of God in the presence. NEVER RUN FROM LOVE! Run to it with open arms.
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Just a few thoughts I normally keep to myself... ;-)
#noego #nocomfortzone #love #joy #peace #happiness
www.armanivalentino.com --- #like #share #repost somebody you know needs it
So, you often accept "what is" and "what you're used to" versus your truest desires -- love, joy, peace & happiness -- just to say, "At least I am not by myself!" All while being alone and lonely in a marriage/relationship. PHYSICALLY PRESENT, but MENTALLY ABSENT trying to piece together the leftover threads of a cloth that has worn out and unraveled. You begin to reflect the unspoken emotions of another failed relationship that you refuse to let go of because you think another failed relationship makes you a failure. So, you go back over & over again, and continue to do all the right things for the wrong man. Instead of running to the arms of LOVE, you remain in the comfort of dysfunction, only to end up more hurt, bitter, and privately filled with shame.
Imagine being in a relationship where the man emits and exudes LOVE, and there's no question of whether or not he LOVES you... RESPECTS you... HONORS you... YEARNS for you... LIKES you... APPRECIATES you... and YOU are FREE to be VULNERABLE enough to do the same...
There's nothing weak about LOVE! Love is the strongest energy that there is in the Universe, and anyone, but especially a man who knows how to LOVE is a reflection of GOD! God is LOVE and therefore, being loved is a manifestation of God in the presence. NEVER RUN FROM LOVE! Run to it with open arms.
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Just a few thoughts I normally keep to myself... ;-)
#noego #nocomfortzone #love #joy #peace #happiness
www.armanivalentino.com --- #like #share #repost somebody you know needs it
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