"Don't go to bed upset!"

Every single relationship I've personally been in and/or friendship that didn't last, was because at some point one or both of us went to bed too many times mad.

There's a spiritual truth to this and just about every other part of our life coincides with this as well. The longer you let a problem linger and continue to go on between you and another individual without reconciling, atoning, and forgiving one another, you grieve the holy spirit and give way for the dividing forces to enter.

Growing, no matter our religion, we knew to pray. I've had conversations with numerous criminals who have now turned their lives around tell me, "I ALWAYS PRAYED. I never would go to bed without asking God to forgive me."

This idea of asking for continual forgiveness puts one in position to also have to give what their asking God for as well. When refuse to forgive and forget or pardon others for the wrongs they have done we hold ourselves hostage from the blessings God has for us.

One way to help sure up your relationships to be long lasting is to not go to bed angry or upset with your mate! Put your E.G.O. (Edging God Out) to the side and do what's morally & spiritually correct!

Thanks!
Until next time...
#claimtheincrease #iallowmygood #iEmbraceTheUnknown

Armani Valentino

"Your Relationship didn't just fail, one or both of YOU QUIT!"
-Armani Valentino-

Every time you quit something, especially a relationship, it becomes easier to quit again and again! Most individuals never admit or never see the patterns of their life. Therefore, the cause or blame is always on someone else.

Most couples never gain or learn the skills needed to have healthy long layinrg relationships, which include:

1.) Active listening skills
2.) A genuine desire to understand the other person.
3.) To change how you are without changing who you are!
4.) To love without limits and conditions.
5.) Keep your vows and daily agreements.
6.) Forgive & Forget
7.) Treat the other person the way they've asked to be treated and not how you want to them to be treated.
8.) Communicate your desires openly versus expecting the other person to know or read your mind. 9.) Make Quitting the last option or no option!
10.) Have as much fun as possible and always staying open to falling deeper in love each day with your mate!

These are just a few things needed of an arsenal of tools to help you survive some of the ups & downs of a relationship.

But remember, if you keep quitting looking for the next best thing eventually you'll usually find yourself by yourself.

Until next time...
#iallowmygood #iEmbraceTheUnknown

ArmanI Valentino
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"If you can't prove your concept when you're broke, you won't be able to prove it with money either." Daymond John

This is a very true statement and something I learned years ago. The plan will bring the money if it's a good plan with a solid concept. Oftentimes, we believe money will fix all of our problems with our startup or small business. While it can make things easier financially, it can't ensure business success!

Creating a solid team with the skills, dependability, and desire to see the business successful are more important than money. Investors will come once you've proved your concept and ability to stay in the game through the ups and downs of building a business.
Until next time... #claimtheincrease
Armani Valentino

Relationship Advice of the Day:

SETTLE!

Over the years I have heard literally over 100,000 women say, I KNOW WHAT I WANT and I'm NOT settling!" Interestingly enough, they often forget that the man they are or were with, and may be with in the future, will be settling in some way.

You're not perfect and listening to these non-trained "experts" will keep you single, lonely, and forever not settling! Somewhere along the way people started being tricked concerning love, dating, marriage and relationships! EVERYONE and I do mean EVERYONE settles in some way. INSTEAD of looking for reasons to leave a person you know you love, look for reasons to LOVE them even more!

Most of the time everything you're wanting will eventually manifest itself in the relationship if you can be patient and LOVE UNINTENTIONALLY! And if the two of you really want to be together, GO GET SOME professional HELP! It will be worth it because if it's really live, you're not settling! -Armani Valentino

Until next time... #lovewithoutlimits

Small Business Advice of the Day:


Get your paperwork together; especially if it involves intellectual property. 

Pay for the legal and accounting fees it takes to get your business paperwork together. It will be well worth it to be proactive versus being reactive. It will also save you a lot of unneeded confusion and back and forth. 

If people don't want to agree with your paperwork, don't do business with them unless you can make some small client specific adjustments that both parties agree to. There are already enough things that can go wrong with paperwork, so imagine what can go wrong without it. 

FACEBOOK is a perfect example of what can happen.

Java Script...Bookstore!

I Had the opportunity to stop by this nice place today. It's an independent bookstore & coffee place with a nice twist. It has a different rooms and themes in each room that coincide with the books in the room.

Be sure to stop by if you're in the Texarkana area. I think you'll really enjoy it. Plus the owners are very nice! I got the personal tour!

College Boy Publishing, may be hosting some of our future book signings here! Plus, they had the famous leg lamp from my favorite Christmas Movie...A Christmas Story!

"Until you HEAL, you BLEED on EVERYONE you try to LOVE!" Armani Valentino





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Until you FOR-GIVE, God can not GIVE you ALL that He has FOR you! ~Armani Valentino

Forgiving can be one of the hardest things in the world to do. Even more so, forgiving yourself, can often be the most difficult.

In my books, The Power of Forgiveness and The Love Triangle: How to Heal from a Broken Heart (Hurt, Shame, Bitterness, and Betrayal) I go more into detail about the actual process of forgiveness.

Just know this, unforgiveness is a BLOCK. God has many blessings awaiting us all, but our inability to forgive keeps blocking many of those blessings. Until we are able to forgive, we will all continue to struggle with sharing, giving, and receiving true love, peace, joy, and happiness.

Until next time,
Armani Valentino
www.ArmaniValentino.com

Small Business Advice of the Day: GET SOME REST!
In the quest to wealth and riches remember that even God rested one day! Rest allows the needed recovery for your brain and body to attract the desires of your heart! Take at least one day a week off. Otherwise, you won't even be able to enjoy the fruits of your labor!

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Small Business Advice of the Day: People who pay, pay attention!
There is no such thing as something for nothing. The laws of the Universe are not set up that way. Sow then Reap. Give then Get. Do not ever be afraid to ask for money upfront before services are rendered.

Money is a medium of exchange.

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