February 15, 2016

​Dallas, TX ---As the new week began on President’s Day 2016, many individuals didn’t have to go to work on today, and children didn’t have to go to school. Therefore, many spouses, fiancées, and significant others either got it right on this past Valentine’s Day or they totally missed it, again. Depending on how well the Lover’s weekend went for them, their Monday was probably in direct correlation to their weekend. They were either basking in joy or stressing about the discontent of their lover. Either way, they had their opportunity to at least get it right.

Then, there’s another group of individuals; no matter how much they wanted to get it right and maybe even impress the object of their affection they had no one with whom they could enjoy Valentine's 2016. They were willing to buy the flowers, cards, candy, dinner, movie, engagement ring, or sit at home and #netflixcandchill; but they had no one with whom they could give or receive love this Valentine’s 2016. 

With all the dating options today, or seemingly abundant choices to choose from when it comes to finding love, many individuals still struggle to attract a suitable date for Valentine's Day, every year. I realized this when I woke up this morning and signed into my social media accounts. #Singleandlovingit #teamsingle #treatingmyself #stillsingle #nodate And many other hashtags centered around the lack of love or someone with whom to share Valentine's Day.

On one hand, there were individuals who were excited about Valentine’s Day festivities; and just as many who were kind of sour or trying to act as if they weren’t so sad about not having someone with whom they could share Valentine’s Day weekend. 

The 5 people who more than likely have the Valentine’s Blues worst than you…

​1.)    The Man, who bought the ring for the woman of his dreams, planned everything out, only to be told, “No!”
2.)    The Lady, who had finally let her walls down enough to go on a date with a man, went and got her hair done, bought a nice dress, shoes, etc., maybe even paid for a babysitter, only to end up being stood up by this guy who had no real intentions with her in the first place. 
3.)    The child or young person who got their heart broken over the weekend for the first time. 
4.)    The person spending their first Valentine’s alone without their lover who may have passed within the last 12 months.
5.)    The person who doesn’t believe in love, at all. And therefore, is negative about any and everyone else enjoying and/or pursuing love.

I am all about individuals loving one another and being in love. Therefore, I encourage you to be LOVE’S EXPRESSION, not just on Valentine’s Day, but every day. This within itself will help you to be able to appreciate whatever you receive and look forward to giving love, daily. I Otherwise, every year, you’ll end up having the After Valentine’s Day Blues.

Until next time…

©2016. Armani Valentino. All rights reserved.

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1. 99 Questions You Must Ask A Man Before Sleeping with Him & Definitely Before Having SEX
2. This Is Why I  Won't Marry You
3. The Love Triangle: How to Heal from a Broken Heart (Hurt, Shame, Bitterness, and Betrayal)
4. Why Do We Hurt Each Other & How Do We Get Back 2 Love
5. The Power of Forgiveness
6. Getting Your Man to Do What You Want

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"ALL People have problems! Period.
It's the way they handle them that makes the difference."
- Armani Valentino

When I was younger, I used to think there were people who didn't have any issues or problems because of some sort of socioeconomic, race, religious, physical appearance, neighborhood location, affiliations, or other status. I soon figured out this was not a correct thought.

Life is a problem. Actually, it's a series of problems or as I like to call them, challenges! And when you quit on a problem and/or dint learn how to handle it properly,  the same problem(s) will continue to be presented to you throughout your life. 
In mathematics,  EVERY PROBLEM HAS A SOLUTION! And the more difficult the problem,  there's often more than one methodology of solving the same problem. Life is the same way. The problems we have in all areas of our life have solutions! However,  we're often so engrossed in the problem that we can't see OR focus on the solution. And when this happens, we can often lose HOPE.

Without HOPE,  it's hard to believe and to continue to be open to the mere FACT that there is a viable SOLUTION to the problem(s). I'd like to give you a few ideas to help you with some problems and challenges you may be facing.

1.) Be POSITIVE! This is important because POSITIVE and negative do not ever produce a 100% positive outcome. 

2.) Do YOUR PART! We're often perpetuating the very problem we're saying we want solved through our thoughts,  words,  and actions we display on a regular basis.

3.) ASK FOR HELP! Let GO OF YOUR EGO! Get help even if you have to pay for it! When you don't know, it's okay. When you've gotten it wrong over and over again, you may want to ask someone to show you how to solve the problem.  One of the benefits of wiring in groups in High School and College was always the use of other folks mind or a COLLECTIVE MIND greater than all of our own individual minds, to solve the problem. Life is the same way. Get a coach or mentor(s) to help you get things in order.

4.) Count YOUR blessings,  and not someone else's. In our society today,  there is still a desire to compare ourselves to others, on a daily basis. While this can be good in certain circumstances,  as a way of deciding how blessed you are is not an adequate account of the true level of just how BLESSED you are. Count your blessings and appreciate the blessings you carry with you every single day --- eyes,  eyesight, skin, nails,  hair,  teeth,  being able to breathe, sense of taste,  touch, walk,  talk, sense of smell, use of your legs, arms, toes,  joints,  digestive system,  healthy cells in your body,  and so much more.

In conclusion,  Don't focus on the problem,  focus on the solution! #staypositive #dosomething #productive use your #faith and #imagination #success will be yours! Get a good #lifecoach or two #treatyourself #be #beautiful inside and out. 

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