REspect the role of the male & fatherLife Advice of the Day: Those of you who have been called to teach woman/girls, through your example, be sure to teach them how to properly appreciate & respect the role the male & father. For many this will take a change internally, first, because they themselves must learn to respect & appreciate the males in their own life. And, be careful not to teach women through your emotional bitterness, hurt, shame, and feelings of betrayal. Only to turn around and put it all on God/Jesus, claiming he is the reason for this struggle and that struggle. That is not true and it's not healthy and further perpetuates the real deeper issues.
Please teach the role of PERSONAL responsibility in decision-making, because in your time of hurt and healing it is EASY to BLEED on other people while teaching them. So, if you have a platform, make sure you're using it as a place of health and healing by healing thyself, first. The reason many of the conferences, books, seminars, sermons are ineffective is because healing hasn't fully taken place in the HEART of the deliverer of the message. Furthermore, this is why an individual can hear sermon after sermon, workshop after workshop, and still have no lasting change. And people then want to start sharing what I call "struggle stories." More often than not, these stories only perpetuate unwanted cycles. In conclusion, you're dealing with many lives through EVERY person you teach, have influence, or lead. Please prepare yourself, because leading and teaching people requires more than most people can handle. Until next time... Armani Valentino - www.armanivalentino.com
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Relationship Advice of the Day: Sometimes people just want to HEAR you say, "I AGREE..."
Don't let your ego, the habit or desire to be combative, and wanting to be 'right' ruin the comradary and morale of the relationship. The words, "Oh OK, I understand. I can see where you're coming from... If I was in your position, I might feel the same way..." go a long ways in securing and keeping open lines of communication. But, when one or both of you become insensitive to each other, there's no room for open and honest communication to win. If open and honest communication are not a part of the relationship, you WILL NOT have a healthy, happy, and prosperous union. And without these things being present in a relationship, PEACE will be VERY hard to find. Understand that in order for a relationship to produce it's purpose, AGREEMENT must be at the core. The enemy of PEACE thrives on breaking the state of PEACE by breaking the agreement. Because he understands THE POWER OF AGREEMENT, according to Matthew 18:19. Often, when people see a POWER COUPLE, they want what the couple has, but don't understand that in all of the TRUE POWER COUPLES, there's one thing in common --- no matter race, religion, occupation, socio-economic background, or city/country of origin --- AGREEMENT! They have the ability to stay in agreement and in an AGREEABLE state of MIND with one another. Period. Without AGREEMENT, there is no RELATE-ionship because you and the other refuse to show that you can RELATE. Staying in AGREEMENT and in an AGREEABLE state of MIND is the TRUE WORK in ALL relationships. Until next time... Meditate on Matthew 18:19 in all your personal and business relationships. It will serve you well. #staypositive #keepthefaith #claimtheincrease #seeyouatthetop www.ArmaniValentino.com If you'd like dating and relationship coaching, call 972-781-8404 |
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