Life advice of the day

REspect the role of the male & father

Life Advice of the Day: Those of you who have been called to teach woman/girls, through your example, be sure to teach them how to properly appreciate & respect the role the male & father. For many this will take a change internally, first, because they themselves must learn to respect & appreciate the males in their own life. And, be careful not to teach women through your emotional bitterness, hurt, shame, and feelings of betrayal. Only to turn around and put it all on God/Jesus, claiming he is the reason for this struggle and that struggle. That is not true and it's not healthy and further perpetuates the real deeper issues.

Please teach the role of PERSONAL responsibility in decision-making, because in your time of hurt and healing it is EASY to BLEED on other people while teaching them. So, if you have a platform, make sure you're using it as a place of health and healing by healing thyself, first. The reason many of the conferences, books, seminars, sermons are ineffective is because healing hasn't fully taken place in the HEART of the deliverer of the message. Furthermore, this is why an individual can hear sermon after sermon, workshop after workshop, and still have no lasting change. And people then want to start sharing what I call "struggle stories."

More often than not, these stories only perpetuate unwanted cycles. In conclusion, you're dealing with many lives through EVERY person you teach, have influence, or lead. Please prepare yourself, because leading and teaching people requires more than most people can handle.

​Until next time... Armani Valentino - www.armanivalentino.com