In order to get along better in realtionships there are multiple things that you must personally do. I won't go into that long list of "must do's," but what I will do is give you 3 Ways that will help you get along much better almost overnight.
#1.) Do not criticize, condemn or complain. In the book, How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie hit the nail on the head with this one. No one, not even children like being around someone that has to always find a way to criticize or condemn them, or someone that is always complaining. Many husbands and boyfriends have often asked me "Why does my lady always have to complain...no matter what I do, how much I do, or how sincere I am in my doing, she always finds something to complain about." ;-) This is probably by far the most damaging thing to a man or woman.
#2.) Appreciate others...lavishly. Always appreciate everything that the people you are interacting with do. It's very hard to resist the desire to be around someone that you know genuinely appreciates the things that you do for them. This helps the other person appreciate you more. It also helps you to appreciate yourself more as well.
#3.) Be positive. A positive mental attitude will only and forever help you and the others around you go to higher and higher heights. After a while, the more positive you are, if the people around you aren't positive, they will end up being released from your life. Either way, always try your best to be positive.
www.armanivalentino.com
For Private consultations and coaching please call 972-781-8404
#1.) Do not criticize, condemn or complain. In the book, How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie hit the nail on the head with this one. No one, not even children like being around someone that has to always find a way to criticize or condemn them, or someone that is always complaining. Many husbands and boyfriends have often asked me "Why does my lady always have to complain...no matter what I do, how much I do, or how sincere I am in my doing, she always finds something to complain about." ;-) This is probably by far the most damaging thing to a man or woman.
#2.) Appreciate others...lavishly. Always appreciate everything that the people you are interacting with do. It's very hard to resist the desire to be around someone that you know genuinely appreciates the things that you do for them. This helps the other person appreciate you more. It also helps you to appreciate yourself more as well.
#3.) Be positive. A positive mental attitude will only and forever help you and the others around you go to higher and higher heights. After a while, the more positive you are, if the people around you aren't positive, they will end up being released from your life. Either way, always try your best to be positive.
www.armanivalentino.com
For Private consultations and coaching please call 972-781-8404
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